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It pays to be positive

Whether you believe you are a great firm, or you believe you aren’t, you’re probably right


Is your firm a winner or an also-ran? If this was a movie, would you be the tall, dark handsome guy who always gets the girl, or the weedy loser who gets sand kicked in his face? Is your corporate cup half empty or half full? Do you expect to find a pot of gold at the end of every rainbow or just a muddy puddle?


The extent to which - as an organisation and as individuals - you are self-assured and expect to succeed is a hugely important aspect of marketing, but one which is often overlooked. Although it’s difficult to quantify and identify, it’s nevertheless something of which we’re all aware. Just think of which firms you admire and why – chances are those you have chosen have won your admiration because you perceive them as being ‘successful and confident’.


‘Success’ is all to do with the fact that attractive people attract, while those who others sense as being insecure, uncertain or nervous are given a wide berth. Often professionals are confident about their intellectual capability and legal skills as this is what is consistently rewarded and recognised within the firm. However, other aptitudes such as skill in winning new business or dealing with difficult clients go largely unrewarded. Those who lack confidence in these areas therefore have no motivation to improve, and there is no culture of reinforcing and rewarding improved performance. 


Peak performance is self-perpetuating in that people who are winning expect to win; people who are successful expect to be successful and people who are liked expect to be liked and respected. And most important, those who are successful are usually relaxed, self-confident and appear to be much more in control of things than those who are not. They radiate self-assurance, giving others the confidence that they will succeed at whatever they do. This is enormously important when you’re courting new clients. Particularly in a situation where clients perceive the level of technical ability to be equal between firms (and usually they have little on which to base this assessment), they’ll go for the one that ‘feels right’ i.e. the more relaxed and self-assured.


(Of course, it can be overdone – we all know of people and firms who we consider ‘brash’, ‘pushy’ or ‘arrogant’ – but actually they also tend to have low personal or corporate self-esteem.)


The good news is that if you think you lack corporate confidence, you can do something about it – both on a group and individual basis. Success truly is in the eye of the beholder;  ‘Act authoritatively and you will be perceived as authoritative’ said Robert Winston. So if you play the role of being successful and assured long enough, you eventually will become just that.


Corporate confidence is not easy to change and the specific aspects requiring attention will vary for each organisation. However if you try some of the following tips you’re sure to see a noticeable improvement in performance:

 

 

 

 

 


(c) Dianne Bown-Wilson, the M3 Consultancy

www.m3consultancy.co.uk